1994: the non-crossover #1s, AC and RB
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It's those moments that can break your heart the most. One of my twins hates having her toenails clipped and will wail and scream as if she's being literally tortured.
What an adorable Kidling!! Parenting... it's always an adventure!!
"Why don't you just smack her in the head until she takes her medicine?" See, that's BAD advice and it's in a condescending tone. It's the best of both worlds!
Mia is remarkably used to taking medicine (she should be, as she gets it twice a day). But she still doesn't let Krys give it to her as well as she lets me give it to her. Kids are just wacky that way.
Parenting styles and philosophies can be such a touchy matter. Some of my friends (one's who tended to be conservative Baptist in background) were keen on the ideas of the Ezzos, who wrote a book titled, "Growing Kids God's Way" which seems to be a bit arrogant of a title. I think a key principle of this approach is that parents need to put babies on their schedule. Paula and I, by comparison, tended to favor the approach of Dr. Sears and attachment parenting. When some of my friends found this out I often felt there was a subtext of "you're gonna ruin your kid's character".
I have honestly never read any of the Ezzo's work, and so any impression I have is second hand. With that said, I can certainly understand wanting to shape, structure and develop your child's character, as that is a part of the ministry of being a parent, but the sense that I had is that the Ezzo's approach was rigid and insensitive to context. On the other hand, I can see why some would think that attachment parenting is a bit unstructured.
Anyways, I think most of us read, dialogue, take bits from here and there, and basically find our own way, a way that is organic to our families as a whole . In the end I think we mostly do our children good, but we also create issues for them. Thank God, however, there tends to be some inborn resilience in kids.
In the end, I think that parenting naturally evokes insecurity in various ways and degrees, and this is the source of why it is such a touchy matter.
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