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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

The gender slot

My wife and I were told that perhaps we need to get another roof on our house by a contractor who had done work on our house in the past. Since he was so busy that he was unlikely angling for the job, we thought his word had some credence. So, we have been investigating roofers. My wife called - she is a teacher and therefore home much of the summer - and got three quotes. She was talking to one of them, and he suggested that we probably just needed repairs and that the roof was structurally sound for another 10 years, so we were considering that option. He added, "If you DO decide to get the roof replaced in the future, HAVE YOUR HUSBAND CALL ME." Now I had one brief conversation with him before, but the substantive conversations were all with my wife. Fact is, because she owned a house before we did, she almost certainly knows more about roofing than I do." Must be a generation thing.

My daughter Lydia is allergic to peanuts, as I have indicated before. When Carol is off to college, there will be a couple birthday parties to which Lydia is invited and I'll be taking her. One mom was a friend of mine before she was friends with Carol, but she e-mailed me: "What would be a good time to call Carol to speak with her more about her peanut allergy?" Now, I replied about all of the idiosyncracies of the allergy (allergens well-labeled on most products, need to avoid products processed in plants that may have had peanuts on the conveyor belt, etc.) Yup, even Lydia's DAD is up on the particulatrs of Lydia's allergies; we all deal with it every time we shop for groceries, eat at a restaurant or purchase something from a bakery.


ROG

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Roger,
I see I'm quoted in your blog! :) The reason I asked to speak with Carol about Lydia's peanut allergy is because I had already spoken to you about it at Andrew's party. I wanted to speak with BOTH parents because i'm terrified of inadvertently serving something with peanuts to Lydia! I asked you what time would be a good time to call because I know that Carol is out of town for her schooling and you would have the inside tip on her availability. I'm very sorry my question was interpreted as sexist. That was not my intention at all!! see you Saturday! best, Janna